There is a difference between “I don’t want to get involved ace discourse at all” and “I avoid publicly stating an opinion but continually reblog posts making fun of a-spec people”. The former is absolutely okay and understandable. The latter is being a bigot and not wanting to be held accountable for it.
breathe. you’ve made it so far this year. you’ve gotten through so many things that you thought you wouldn’t, and you’ll continue to get though this, whatever it is. i know you can. i believe in you, and i’m so, so proud of you. i know it probably seems impossible, but it’s going to be ok. it’s going to be ok.
breathe in, breath out. and just keep breathing. we’re gonna get there.
hello, i am someone who was directly impacted by the shooting at Marjory Stoneman Douglas. it happened in my own community, down the street of the meeting place for my weekly lgbt support group. my mom works at a house that neighbors the one Peter Wang once lived. my heart is so heavy in my chest for the victims and their families as i watch my friends at Douglas suffer from the loss of these lives taken too young. i am making this post as an appendage to my friend’s post (please reblog this one too) who i am more than blessed to have alive, well, and with me. Douglas was a household name for me, I never expected to become a household name for the world. please consider donating to the fundraisers below too.
all of these have been vetted and verified by GoFundMe and will go Directly to the families, or Directly to scholarships made in the victim’s names. I will update the list as new fundraisers are verified. please, giving one or two dollars to each could make an such a large impact on these people’s lives and our community. thank you
HEY EVERYONE GO DONATE TO THIS CAMPAIGN TO SEND KIDS IN GHANA TO SEE BLACK PANTHER, TODAY’S THE LAST DAY AND THEY’RE NOT EVEN HALFWAY TO THEIR GOAL GO GO GO
anyway i hate how tumblr is now only focusing on wlw and mlm
so to NB people with queer attractions:
i love you
you are not “basically straight”
you are awesome
you don’t have to fit into a binary box for your attractions to be queer and valid
it’s ok if you’re still learning to love yourself because it’s hard
regardless of your appearance you are valid and your attractions and how you label them are valid
stay hydrated as best you can
regardless of whether you lean masc, femme, in between, whatever other direction you want, or don’t have a direction at all, you are valid and your attractions and how you label them are valid
i hope you find money on the sidewalk and your favorite candy is on sale
i hope you get to pet a cute dog next time you go out